Regrets......I've had a few..... but then again.... too few to mention..........

As the song goes........ but I did it MY WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY.
I have at times throughout my life, reflected on the people I have met, loved and lost as well as the interactions that have made huge impressions on me.
Sometimes the names of people will pop into my head and I will have a little cringe or wonder what ever happened to them.
I also wonder if they ever have my name pop into their head...... lol
I guess it is all a learning process.
I don't think I have ever caught myself dwelling on a situation, it is more like asking myself the questions of why did I do that and what did I learn from it.
Sometimes the answer is very clear and other times it is not.
I guess what I am trying to say is that we all do things in our lives that we could have done differently.
Owning and learning from it are the things that make us grow stronger and into better people.
Then there are the people that play games and try to draw you into their webs.
I am sure everyone has come across many of those.
I guess I am lucky that I can now spot them a mile away and have the skills to deflect them.
I strive each day to be my authentic self and have gotten to a place in my life where I have accepted myself, flaws and all.
It doesn't mean that I like the place that I find myself in, it just means that it is not permanent.
I embrace change and challenge.
Previously I was afraid of change and like everything to be in a certain order.......... but look where that got me.
My Mother always tells me........ "Don't sweat the things you cannot change".
I have reconciled this within myself and embrace it whilst looking for a different path.
Being on this learning curve over the last 3 years has taught me a lot and all of which I am eternally grateful.